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Want to transform your life? Stop chasing perfection

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Want to transform your life? Stop chasing perfection
Article
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/jan/12/i-accept-myself-just-as-i-am-the-rise-of-realistic-self-help
Journal
The Guardian
Issued Date
January 12, 2019
Page
-
Language
English(English)
Country
UNITED KINGDOM
City
London
Book
Love for Imperfect Things
Writer
HAEMIN
Translator
Deborah Smith

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  • HAEMIN
  • Birth : 1973 ~ -
  • Occupation : Writer, Monk
  • First Name : Hyemin
  • Family Name : -
  • Korean Name : 혜민
  • ISNI : 0000000099097017
  • Works : 16
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Haemin is especially eloquent on life’s smaller dissatisfactions, and how they can sometimes be trickier to deal with than the bigger, more dramatic ones. For example, though it’s a good thing that we talk so much more openly today about mental illness, one perverse consequence is that it can actually be easier to admit to a serious depression than to a milder, pervasive sense of disappointment in life. “Unlike other emotions, disappointment is very tricky to express: it comes out as petty and small-minded,” Haemin writes; it also tends to sound like you’re blaming other people for failing to measure up. Yet of course it’s a far more widespread problem than severe suffering. It has been argued that Buddha’s observation that “life is suffering” might be more accurately translated as something like “life is bothersome”. (With luck, extreme agony will be very infrequent in your life, but a background sense of things being not quite right may be truly close to universal.) The first step towards relieving this kind of discontent, Haemin suggests, is to recognise the untenability of the demand that you, or anyone you encounter, should demonstrate perfection to begin with. Much of the bothersomeness of daily life arises not from circumstances themselves, but from the insistence that they ought to be other than they are.

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